When things are looking bleak for
your health... at work... or in your personal life,
it's difficult to see anything funny about anything.
But there's a school of thought that says that's
just what you should do -- use humor to reduce stress
and encourage physical and emotional wellness
and healing.
To get the inside scoop on
humor in healing, I spoke with Allen Klein
(aka "Mr. Jollytologist"), MA, incoming president
of the Association for Applied and Therapeutic
Humor and author of The Healing Power of Humor.
Klein gives speeches and conducts workshops around
the world to teach people how to use humor to deal
with changes, challenges and the not-so-funny stuff,
from everyday trials to triumphing over tragedy.
Medical Fact or Fiction?
There are many theories to explain
how humor promotes physical and emotional well-being.
In a study by Lee Berk, DrPH, MPH, at Loma Linda
University in California, the immune-suppressing
hormone cortisol was found to be less prevalent in
people's blood when they laughed. Another theory
is that laughter triggers the secretion of
pleasure-inducing endorphins, although this has
never been proven.
While no one knows the precise
connection between humor and healing, Klein points
out that we do know that laughter...
Raises and then lowers our heart
rate and blood pressure, similar to aerobic exercise.
Relaxes our muscles.
Oxygenates the blood, so we think better
after a laugh.
Of course, a lot of the evidence
linking humor with healing and health is anecdotal.
Klein advises that you ask yourself, how do I feel
when I laugh? Chances are, you feel pretty good.
Just as anger and hostility are bad for your heart
and health, humor and laughter are good for you.
Open up Your "Humor Eyes"
"Humor is all around you,"
says Klein. "All you have to do is open your eyes
and ears and look." He advises that you try to
reframe challenging situations using your "humor
eyes." When you find humor in trying times, one
of the first and foremost changes you experience
is that you see your problems in a new light.
Suddenly, you have a fresh perspective and may
see new ways to deal with them.
Klein tells the story of a
woman who was depressed and suicidal. Standing
on a bridge, she was tempted to hurl herself
off it, when suddenly she looked down at her
new $150 shoes and said, "No way." This made
her laugh, turn her back on the bridge and
seek counseling.
Humor can play a role in
situations from the sublime to the ridiculous.
In traffic jams, Klein blows bubbles out the
window. While you may not want to carry your
sense of humor this far, there are small steps
you can take to start lightening up in your own
everyday life. For example, keep a funny cartoon
or photo on your desk at work. Or when the going
gets tough, call an old friend or family member
and make them tell you the childhood story that
always makes you laugh.
Klein advises that you have
a "humor mantra" on hand to repeat to yourself
at stressful moments. Make up your own or use
one of his following suggestions...
I have no time for a crisis, my
schedule is full.
Oh, what an opportunity for growth
and learning!
I refuse to be intimidated by reality.
Take it back. It's not what I ordered.
I'd rather be ____________ (dancing,
skiing, jogging, etc.).
Beam me up, Scotty.
Research has shown that people
who volunteer often live longer. Another important
part of Klein's philosophy is sharing humor with
others. When he sees a person in trouble, he tries
to help. For example, recently his plane was delayed
for several hours, so he gave the flight attendant
one of his red clown noses (which you can usually
purchase at a costume or party-supply store) to wear.
Next thing he knew, many of the aggravated passengers
were smiling once again, and some of the uncomfortable
tension drained out of the situation.
Fill Your World With Bright Colors
According to Klein, your attitude
is like a box of crayons that color the world.
Constantly use gray colors, and your picture will
always be dark and depressing. Use humor to add
bright colors, and your picture begins to
lighten up.
In his experience, humor has
played a role in even the most difficult circumstances.
Klein has worked with people with cancer, AIDS
and Alzheimer's -- among others -- and all have
found some humor to give them the courage to
go on.
Sources...
Allen Klein, MA, incoming president,
Association for Applied and Therapeutic Humor and author
of The Healing Power of Humor (Tarcher). Visit his Web
site at www.allenklein.com.
Association for Applied and Therapeutic
Humor, www.aath.org